Do you have the ability to accept the things you can change and the things you cannot change? Do you have the ability to accept the fact that other people are meant to change themselves, rather than you changing them? Do you accept that you are who you are, regardless of what others think, or the challenges you are facing? Can you accept the many changes that take place in your life?
Well, if you answered ‘YES’ to one or all of these questions then you are off to start the journey of improving your personal life with me. If you are willing to accept, you have the ability to laugh, even when something is not funny. For instance, if someone pushed you, you could stand back and laugh. The push is only a threat to your emotion, which you will see, accept and find a way to gain control of the situation.
When you can accept things in life, including yourself and the people around you, you will definitely find a way to take control. When you are in control, it helps you to see how you can improve your personal life. When you learn to accept you will learn to discover YOU.
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Many people in the world believe that when we act the same way at all times, we have established our identity. And this is politically incorrect! We have emotions, thoughts, behaviors, actions, and have been plagued by a world of influences both good and bad. Each day we will feel something new, which causes our personality to reflect on these changes. Therefore, when you see someone laughing one minute and crying the next, you are seeing a shift in emotions, which is a normal pattern of identity for this person.
We live in a world that desensitizes us. We are surrounded by billions of influencers on television, in the media, on radio, in house-holds, government, schools, and so forth. Each one on their own, but everyone is judging someone at some time, which is something we must change. We have to accept everyone the way they are. We cannot change people’s behaviors and ways of thinking, but we can change ours. This is a part of learning and accepting. The best way around the world is to become your own influence and not allow someone’s criticism to damage your self-image and make your life miserable. Only rely on sources that prove truthful with your actions, behaviors, and words. Positive reflections are the key to living happier.
Once you learn to accept, you will be eager to laugh. For instance, if someone makes you mad, you will see the humor in his or her actions. You may see the humor in your actions if you make a mistake and feed into their stupidity. Once you start to see the humor in life, you will feel better inside.
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We are involved in an unruly world filled with greedy people, envious souls, lusty tigers, and so on. We have to learn how to work around these people, accept them and move on. Once you learn to change to better YOURSELF, other people may follow. Good conduct has proven far more effective than words to encourage others to change.
As you grow you will feel a new hunger, and that hunger will guide you to discover new ways to better YOU. In time as you start to feel better, you will see a need to exercise, eat right, and hang out with positive influencers, and so on. Once you feel this hunger, you will feel inspired to labor to achieve your GOALS.
Ana Kevelin Reyes
Author, Mindset Coach & Speaker